"warning signs"
Mary tells us that her partner was extremely jealous and possessive. These are just a couple of the many warning signs of an abusive partner. There is certain behaviour that can give you clues of potential abuse in the relationship.
What are some of the warning signs?
Extreme jealousy.
Wants to know where you are at all times.
Gets upset if you spend time with friends or family.
Holds rigid expectations of male/female or adult/child roles.
Expects you to meet his emotional needs.
Blames others and you for his problems.
Threatens you with violence.
There may be many other warning signs; you can phone the nearest Woman's Shelter for further information.
In your contact with any family member, the following observations should be considered clues to the possibility of wife assault.
- A history of wife assault or child abuse in his family of origin.
- A suspicion of child abuse or sexual abuse in his role as a father.
- Abuse of drugs or alcohol.
- A history of suicidal thoughts or suicide attempts.
- Such characteristics as:
- impulsiveness
- temper tantrums
- jealousy
- possesiveness
- excessive dependence on his wife
- immaturity
October 1998
©1998-1999 Legal Resource Centre of Alberta.
